Testimonials from Kallahs
To whom it may concern,
I lived in Har Nof for a few years before my wedding. Boruch Hashem I got married two years ago and Mrs. Miriam Miller was my kalla teacher.
I had a meaningful and informative experience learning with her; she mentioned that she teaches Ashkenazi and Sephardi kallos, which was right in my direction. I am an Ashkenazi
from home, and my husband’s family is from the Baghdadi community, originally.
Mrs. Miller gave me a package deal, which meant that I didn’t need to think how many lessons I needed because of the budget. Therefore I felt at ease to have as many meetings as
necessary. She has a private kallah teaching room; it even has a separate entrance so her family members do not see the kallahs coming in.
Living in Har Nof, she has easy access to a well known posek in hilchos Nida, Rabbi Ostroff, Shlita. He lives a minute away, so she goes with her kallos if they have a shaila before the wedding, a wonderful boost for the self esteem required for a young lady to bring such personal artifacts to a Rav. A very modest woman with a majestic air about her, Mrs. Miller has a well rounded, balanced, and holy perspective on the inner world of marriage in tune with the guidance of
the finest Rabbanim and Rebetzins.
Mrs. Miller does her utmost to be available to her kallos before, during and after the wedding. When she had to go to chutz l’aretz shortly after I got married, she gave me a phone number to reach her there if I needed to! Also included is a meeting after the wedding at a convenient time in person, to discuss how things are going.
Something which particularly impressed me was that I had a question about a minhag I found difficult and she spoke to my husband’s chosson Rebbe, who consulted a knowledgeable Sephardi Rav (whom we are still in touch with) to decide what to do. Not one to advocate for medicine as a first route to the chupa, Mrs. Miller takes each kallah
as an individual.
Mrs. Miller sees the bigger picture: getting girls married successfully. She is open minded: she has a general mehalech, but will be flexible about the details if necessary and in accordance with halalcha, to fit the needs of the kallah. In short, your kallah will be in good hands. I was.